After a long chat with my brother, Today I thought about to share my views regarding Marriage….
People don’t like to make commitments since they think it will ruin their life someday…. I think movies have influenced us a lot and some believe marriage is
What is a Marriage???
It is a legal or formal recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship…. (Google)
Lets discuss the reasons for people getting scared of commitments….
Money is an important factor for living and we spend our life to attain a good education depending on our circumstances. We do enough hardwork to fulfill our dreams and in between comes the question….
Then the whole journey get stuck somewhere and we wind up to another axis where we have to find our perfect partner….
No one gets a perfect partner….
Those who are already in a relationship will start doubting….
Is this the one ???
Is it the right time to get married ???
And then comes the pressure, tension…. Uff!!!
And our antogonists may say the story of their relative’s son got divorced…. We may not scrutinize the narrative but the one word pierce inside the head…. DIVORCE!!!
Your career definitely will affect a marriage. But life is not about achievements you made, if you have no one to share. Friends will be there for you but after their marriage, don’t expect them to attend your call at any time…. Think about it….
Marriage comes with responsibilities for sure…. No one likes to put a burden in their shoulders. We already may have so many problems in our life.
To become a responsible person is a good thing….
You have one life and you have to experience everything in it. And your partner will definitely help you to share the duties. But you have to tell your struggle to the person. Otherwise he/she won’t know that….
The responsibilities will make you a better person, more regulated and controlled….
Peace of mind
When two people start living together, there will be some misunderstandings and arguments…. We may make mistakes and some issues cannot be tolerated by your partner.
Share your opinions and avoid to carry a bad fight which hurt one person’s feelings…. Think about the best and memorable moments you had before….
After the fight, you have to talk to each other and forget about what happened before…. You can end the fight in between also…. Its not at all a competition to evaluate who won…. If the fault is with your partner, then explain it to him… Perceive what he says, Thats it…. Sometimes people may not accept what we are saying, but its ok…. Try some other day if you think it is needed…. Eventually it will come to the track you wanted….
And the most important piece of advice I want to give is that….
Stay together, away from your parents….
The way partners understand each other, may not be feasible for parents…. So its better not to explain….
I don’t think people will get bored with their loved ones…. They will figure out some new ideas to explore and will find different ways to improve the bonding…. It takes time to realize one person’s character…. We, humans may not express ourselves perfectly in few days.
Marriage is a journey to recognize each others character completely….
Moments makes the bond better, not a person…. Marriage is the beginning of an amazing time to be spend with a particular person….
After reading this post I hope some of you guys may feel relaxed and won’t get frightened with the term “Marriage”.
Share your thoughts about marriage in the comment box below….